I have a 18 year old younger sister who is going to the U of A. She like most 18 year olds thinks she knows it all. Well she went and got a tattoo which is against my parents rules while you live at home. They found out, argument ensued and she moved out. She has been babied her entire life. She was adopted and I think my parents felt like sheltering and spoiling her was a good idea. I don't agree but not my place to tell my parents how to raise her. Long story short they told her if she wants to move out and be a big girl then she can pay for her phone and car insurance like a big girl. She has no job and has never had to fend for herself so to speak. I talked to her tonight and of coarse she has no money. She says she has food and is staying with a friend but she has no gas or anything. I want to give her some because I know what she is going through but at the same time I don't want to undermine the message my parents are sending. What would you do? Slide her some cash or make her tough it out?