^ NOT this (other than the last sentence), unless she tries one out & shoots it far better than anything else. J-frame snubbies are not "ladies' guns", they are experienced shooters' guns. Their short barrel & sight radius, long trigger reach & heavy pull, and muzzle blast (esp with .357 mags) make them extremely difficult for new shooters to hit anything with, much less shoot well. And there have been plenty of real-world shootings where 5 rounds weren't enough to get the job done. Are revolvers reliable? Of course. But so is your G26, or any other quality semi-auto. And if you think she'll have trouble clearing a malfunction in an auto, then good luck with her reloading a revolver under stress. The truth is, women can learn to run a handgun (auto or revolver) very well with the right instruction. But that means finding an instructor that has experience teaching women, and then staying out of the way & letting her learn. Because odds are she's going to listen to them a lot better than she will to her husband.